Sex is an incredibly powerful and intimate part of our lives. It’s an important way to connect, to show love, and to keep the flames of passion burning bright. That’s why it’s no surprise that fantasies often come into play during sex. Every individual has their own unique fantasies that they want to explore. But while men’s fantasies are commonly discussed and celebrated, women’s fantasies often remain shrouded in secrecy or shame. To help you get a better understanding of the fantasies that she craves, we’ve compiled a list of our top 10 sex fantasies that she just can’t wait to explore.
Everyone has fantasies, both when it comes to sex and in general. They can be as simple as wanting to take a romantic stroll through a park or as complex as having a threesome. It’s important to remember that fantasizing about something doesn’t always mean that you actually want to do it. A fantasy is simply a way to explore your sexuality and imagination, safely and without judgement. When it comes to sex fantasies, it’s important to keep communication open between you and your partner so that you both feel comfortable exploring them.
Top 10 Sex Fantasies She Craves
- Role-Playing: Role-playing can be a fun way to explore her fantasy life. This could include dressing up as a character from your favorite TV show or movie, or inviting her to take on a role from one of your favorite books. She may also be interested in trying out a more daring role such as a dominatrix or a submissive.
- Playing With Power: She may be interested in creating a power dynamic where she is the dominant and you are the submissive. This can range from light bondage play to exploring a fantasy world where she is in ultimate control. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can also explore disciplinary fantasies where she takes on the role of a teacher and you are the naughty student.
- Experimenting With Toys: Sex toys can add a whole new level of pleasure to your sex life. She may be interested in exploring vibrators, dildos, anal plugs, handcuffs, or even an oral sex simulator. These can all add a new level of arousal and exploration to her intimate life.
- Trying New Positions: Getting out of the same old missionary position and trying something new can be really exciting for her. If she’s feeling daring, she may be interested in trying out positions such as doggystyle, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, or the lotus. Picking up a copy of the Kama Sutra or exploring a website like cosmopolitan’s illustrated sex positions could also give you both some new and exciting ideas.
- Being Worshipped: She might be interested in exploring scenarios where she is worshipped and adored. This could include getting a massage before sex or taking a bath together. Or you might explore sensory fantasies where you lovingly and lasciviously explore her entire body in long and slow strokes.
- Exploring Exhibitionism and Voyeurism: She may be interested in exploring the taboo world of exhibitionism and voyeurism. This could include things like going to a sex club, going skinny dipping, or even engaging in frotteurism (sexual pleasure gained from making contact with a partner’s body in a public setting).
- Incorporating Food: Incorporating food into sex can be a really fun and delicious way to explore your intimacy. Whether it’s lightly feeding each other food during foreplay or pouring warm honey across each other’s bodies, incorporating food can be a great way to really get each other going.
- Having a Threesome: A threesome can be incredibly arousing and rewarding when everyone involved is on the same page. If she’s interested in exploring the fantasy of a threesome, it’s best to start with fantasy role-play first and then discuss boundaries and expectations before you move forward.
- Submitting to Her Partner: Submissive fantasies can be incredibly hot for her as she takes on the role of having no control and simply being at the mercy of her partner. You can explore this fantasy in a variety of ways such as restraining her, blindfolding her, or exploring a whole variety of disciplinary activities.
- Fire and Ice: One popular way to explore heightened arousal is by incorporating a variety of sensations. One example of this is combining fire and ice. You can do this by combining hot wax and ice cubes or by lightly spanking or pinching her skin and then immediately following up with a cold lick or a feather. This can stimulate all of her senses and can be incredibly arousing.
Exploring sex fantasies can be an incredibly empowering and exciting experience. That said, it is important to keep an open and honest line of communication between you and your partner to ensure that everyone’s boundaries are respected and that everyone involved is comfortable and safe.